Cock sucking

When was the last time you had your cock sucked? I am sure it has been a long time. I know you love having it done. There is no time like the present to have it done. I know there is something when it is done right. It is such a turn on when it is in a woman's mouth and she is sucking on it like there is no tomorrow. You need it sucked on like you need to breathe.

Role play as a nurse

A plain starched white nurse’s uniform can form the base of an exciting role playing with the addition of a few accessories like sexy innerwear, a short revealing skirt, sheer stockings and white high heels. You can however vary the degree of exposure depending on how long you want the act to go on before you get down to business. Have the bodice buttoned deep to reveal your cleavage while you bend over your partner to take his temperature for fun. Or tut-tut your man if he wants to get up from bed while playing the flu patient. The role of a nurse probably satisfies some kind of Freudian notion of maternal/sexual desire and fulfills a man’s need to be nurtured and taken care of. But as long as he is enjoying all that attention, why think too much about it?

Masturbation

I always love to watch a guy masturbate his cock. There is something hot about it. A guy who is willing to do it and have a girl watch. There are guys out there who love to be voyeuristic and want to have women watch and have women tell them how to do it. I love telling men how to do it. I even love bringing more in to watch as they do it. Guided masturbation is hot for a guy. It is a hot thing.

A great oral sex and fuck

A guy who loves to have a great 69 and then fuck. He loves to make sure that he eats out a woman and the fucks her right before he cums. A man willing to eat me out is great in my book. He needs to be able to eat my pussy and use his tongue so well. He needs to know the landscape downstairs. He must know how to take care of me as well as I take care of his cock. Then I love to fuck his cock and have my pussy filled with his cock.

Cuckolding

There is something about cuckolding a man. It is when the wife strays within a marriage and finds a man who has a cock of a larger girth than that of her husband and enjoys that cock more than that of her husband. The man can be there in the room watching his wife fuck the other man or he may hear about the exploits after she fucks the other man. The main thing is that the other man has a cock that is a lot bigger. Most women find a man who has a cock that is generally bigger than 8 inches. The understanding is that the man cannot be jealous of the wife fucking the other man. He cannot stop the guy from calling out his wife's name or him fucking her brain's out.

STRIP SNAP

WHAT YOU’LL NEED:
A pack of cards and one fully-clothed man.
HOW TO PLAY:
Traditional snap, but with a twist. For each hand of snap you lose, you also lose an item of clothing. Not only that, your partner gets to choose which piece it will be – and takes it off for you. First one naked loses…or should that be wins?
Why you’ll love it:
It starts off slowly but finishes with a serious bang.

Foreplay and making sex exciting again

There are so many ways to make sex exciting again. Here are some more tips to make sex exciting again. I hope this helps. I know it does for me when I spice things up in the bedroom with my man. Hope this helps you. Give me and other people your ideas. I know you make things work and give others your ideas. Come on and don't be shy. I know you are not shy with me on the phone and are not shy in the bedroom.

*Lick your lover’s nipple then blow cool air on it – repeat
*Warm your lover’s nipple in your mouth then suck in cool air around it
*Read a short passage from an erotic novel aloud in a sexy voice
*Fast forward to a hot & steamy part in an erotic movie – watch one scene
*Tickle the back of your lover’s neck with the tip of your tongue
*Seductively describe in detail how you want to ravish your lover later
*Use an artist brush to swirl flavored lube on your lover’s nipples
*Pick an advanced sex position from a book to try out later
*Pick a random page in a sex guide and use the technique later in your sex play
*Place tender kisses all over your lover’s face
*Stroke and rub your partner’s nose with your nose
*Choose something from the refrigerator to smear on and lick off your lover
*Blow “raspberries” on your lover’s belly or other ticklish regions of their body
*Use your tongue to tickle your lover’s stomach – belly and sides
*Sensually lick flavored lube or liquor from your lover’s navel

BLIND MAN IN THE BUFF

You need: A scarf, a man's necktie or a blindfold.

How to play: Blindfold him. Lead him to the bed or other locale. Then proceed to ravish him -- slowly, recklessly, teasingly, however you feel like doing it. You call the shots. Let his arousal be your guide.

Why: Not being able to see during sex has two major effects -- it dramatically increases both sensitivity and psychological vulnerability. Either one is a powerful aphrodisiac. Together they can create a love explosion.

Variation: He blindfolds you.

Five fingers

In this technique, your hand and arm form an angle with your penis, with four fingers on top of the shaft at a diagonal and your thumb below. This allows you to get more control over the hand-to-penis contact, and it lets you move your hand along the entire length of the shaft, even if your penis isn't very large.

AB/DL

Paraphilic infantilism is a paraphilia characterized by the desire to wear diapers, due to reasons other than medical necessity, and/or be treated as an infant or toddler. It is also characterized by the carrying out of these desires on a regular basis. Within the community of such diaper wearers, one who engages only in the erotic or sexual aspect of diaper wearing without experiencing any accompanying regression fantasies is known as a diaper lover (or DL). An adult who only engages in the infantilistic play aspect is known as an adult baby (or AB). An adult who may experience both of these things is referred to as an AB/DL. In 2004, an informal online survey of 80 adult diaper wearers showed that approximately 40% considered themselves strictly DL's, approximately 40% were mixed, and 20% considered themselves strictly AB's. The survey also indicated that there is a significant number of teenagers who engage in this practice. Findings of the American Psychiatric Association indicate that a majority of infantilists are heterosexual males.

DLs and ABs differ in self-image and the focus of attention.[8] Neither includes a sexual preference for children. There is no singular, archetypical behavior for paraphilic infantilism, but a wide range of thought patterns and behaviors. Some fantasize about being free of guilt, responsibility, or control, whereas others might not. Some act indistinguishably from a baby at times, while others practice in a way that would probably not be noticed by passers by on the street. The desires and tastes of paraphilic infantilists vary around common themes of diapers and babyhood.

How to attract the opposite gender

1. BE THE CENTER OF ATTENTION
Want to be the one who gets noticed? Stand in the center of the room. According to Dr. Albert Mehrabian, the author of several books and nationally-known expert in the field of spatial psychology, where you are in a room (and what you're doing) has a lot to do with your ability to attract the opposite sex. Where should you be for the highest impact and the greatest number of interested cuties? Smack-dab in the center of the room, standing up and moving around a bit. (But don't pace a track on the carpet for goodness sake...)
If you're in a bar or nightclub, the best place to be is at one of the corners on the bar. Not only will you meet more people, but, according to Mehrabian, bartenters tend to gravitate toward the corners as well. Interesting conversation AND a full drink? You'll feel like you've died and gone to dating heaven. The worst place to be seen? Hanging out near the wall or sitting at a table. That hot stranger approaching your table and asking "may I join you" only happens in the movies.
2. THE COLOR LURE
What color can you wear to compel the opposite sex to approach you?
According to Color Consultant Leatrice Eiseman, Director of the Pantone Color Institute and author of Colors For Your Every Mood, women are attracted to men wearing the color blue. And why wouldn't we be? According to Eiseman, guys who frequently wear blue are "stable, faithful, constant and always there." The blue guy is a fantastic candidate for a long-term relationship - someone who's dependable, momogomous and can match his own clothes.
And what about the ladies? Eiseman says women should wear a pink- peach to make themselves most approachable. The color is "very flattering to most skin tones, it gives you healthy glow," and according to Eiseman, projects "a little vulnerability which brings out something protective in men."
Want to wear a color that weeds out guys who can't handle strong women? Try a deep red, burgundy or plum. Men who aren't attracted to strong women will steer clear.
Of all the colors, red is the most sensual. But, wear red with caution. "Red is the color of sex and power," says Eiseman. Red adds an element of excitement and attracts two types of men - men interested in sex, and men attracted to powerful women. Sure, you'll probably have to fend off a lot of freaks, but you could also end up attracting a guy that isn't threatened by the fact that you make a bigger salary.
Concerned your wardrobe is driving people away? Stay away from what Eiseman calls "squished caterpillar yellow-green" which is said to repel both sexes equally.

3. BODY TALK THAT REELS 'EM IN
How do you use body language to attract the opposite sex? If you're a woman, the key is to make yourself approachable. According to nationally-respected body language expert and professional speaker, Patti Wood, you want to make yourself a "safe" (read approachable) target. How do you accomplish that? Don't take up a lot of space (which is a sign of power and superiority.) Wood says, "we are strong women, but remember, we're trying to get a man to come over and talk to us." She explains, "you have to show you have room for someone else in your life."
In addition, Wood says "to be very approachable women should stand with their feet no farther than 6 inches apart with toes pointed slightly inward. " Other key moves, the nod and the head tilt - signal you're listening to what the other person has to say.
For men, appearing more dominant effectively draws the attraction of women. To attract women, stand with your feet 6-10 inches apart, and toes pointing outward. Feel free to take up some space. For men who are victims of the "nice guy" badge, or who appear to be too submissive to attract women, try taking your Y chromosome out for a spin. According to Mehrabian, men should "try wearing bulkier or more conservative hairstyles or clothing," hold your head up, and speed up your speech and gestures to be more assertive.
Body language tips for both sexes: Don't fold your arms and don't chew on gum, ice or your fingernails. According to Wood, the chewing indicates anxiety or frustration, neither of which are very attractive emotions.
4. THE POWER OF A SMILE
Psychology and body language experts agree that one of the most important things you can do to make yourself more attractive (and approachable) is to smile. Not a great big plastic game-show smile, just your normal "I'm having a great time and I'm happy to be here" face will do the trick. According to Wood, "the smile is the international signal of friendliness."
5. TEMPTING WITH SCENT
Studies show that men associate the scents of cinnamon and vanilla with love. To make the scents work for you, try baking some ready-made cinnamon rolls about an hour before your date arrives, or, wear a cinnamon-vanilla scented perfume (there's a fabulous one called "Man Magnet" at www.stopgettingdumped.com.)
Aromatherapy experts have long-believed cinnamon to be an aphrodisiac. According to Laura Davimes, aromatherapy and herb expert , and owner of Herban Avenues, "certain aromatic plants exude oils similar to our own sexual secretions or pheromones. Wearing cinnamon/vanilla blends increases the presence of pheromone-like substances and dramatically increases attraction."
The scent of a woman? Women, according to a recent study, are attracted to a black licorice scent. So, be sure to pick up licorice or Good 'n Plenty at the theater snack bar. And, if you're at a club and happen to spill a little Jaggermeister on your shirt, don't worry about the stain, just consider it your lucky night.

First time sex for women

First time sex is a special moment in a woman's life, but can be a scary enterprise. This is particularly true for young women, who are afraid of the fabled pain. It is true that some pain may occur. This is because the hymen, a connective tissue that rests over the opening of the vagina, tears and ruptures upon the insertion of a penis.

While this may sound terrifying, the pain associated with losing your virginity will quickly abate and in some cases, you may not experience much pain at all. If you are considering having sex for the first time, there are some things you can do to make it not only special, but memorable.

Remember, these first time sex tips for women are but a guideline – they don't necessarily have to follow any order. When it comes to your first time having sex, it is all about instinct and your chosen partner.
First Time Sex Tip #1: Communicate

Your first time having sex will be fraught with anxiety. First time sex can indeed be a wonderful experience if you talk through your reservations. The partner you choose for the event should be receptive to your thoughts and willing to listen. If you can't talk to the man you have chosen, you probably haven't found the right first time sex partner.
First Time Sex Tip #2: Proper Setting

Introducing a romantic element is key to enjoying first time sex. Every woman has their own idea of romance and it may not involve candy and flowers. Communication once again enters the picture. If this will be your first time having sex, then you owe it to yourself and your lover to plan ahead. Let him know what you want. If he cares about you, he will be more than happy to accommodate your wants and needs.
First Time Sex Tip #3: Be Safe

Condoms and pills should be on the list of must haves for the first time. Contrary to what a person may think, you can get pregnant the very first time. Young lovers may not know enough about reproduction to know how to be careful, so it is best to have protection.
First Time Sex Tip #4: Remain Calm

Half of the cause for pain, outside the breaking of the hymen, is fear. Being rigid and unresponsive can cause issues with the actual sex act. Relax and tell yourself that millions of women have come to this cross road and lived. It is a natural aspect of life – you will do fine.

Sex for the first time doesn't have to be a fear inducing moment. If you have found the right guy, he will make it as pleasurable and wonderful as he can.

As I said prior, these first time sex tips for women will only go so far – you will have to make the moment for yourself, and that moment will be grand!

Kinky Sex tips

As a sexually uninhibited person, you have tried it all. You have even sought out and mastered 101 Tantric positions and had a threesome or two. Now, somewhat jaded, you are ready to enter into the realm of extreme kinky sex techniques.

Well, the basic principles behind great kinky sex involve entering a realm that interests you and exploring it with a willing partner. For example, if the idea of tying your lover to the bed and ravishing their body excites you, then the BDSM and Fetish societies may be appealing.

In fact, for people interested in extreme kinky sex techniques, BDSM and Fetish groups have much to offer.

Note: While the Dom/Sub or Master/slave relationships exist in both the BDSM and Fetish societies (Fetish is a subculture of BDSM), it is more prevalent in BDSM.

Be sure to distinguish what each group does and where you may fit in. Once you make this all important determination, you will be bale to get on with the business of having great kinky sex.
Kinky Sex Tip #1: Explore Bondage and Domination:

Like being tied up or subduing your partner? Do you enjoy using your intellect to bring a willing captive to surrender? Bondage and domination is for you.

In BD, kinky sex techniques often involve ropes and specialized tying rituals that place your lover in the most provocative and helpless positions.

Unable to move, a BD Master can have their way with their adoring captive.

The domination aspect is primarily mental – for instance, you may tie your partner to a chair, turn off the lights but not tell them where you are. In this manner, you can leave them wondering if and when you will pounce. Such a tantalizing and kinky sex techniques will have your lover panting and wet before you even enter them.

In other words, great kinky sex can be had by screwing with the mind of your lover prior to coitus.

The various rope tying techniques can be pretty intricate and is best taught by a Dom/Domme who has done this type of thing for a number of years.
Kinky Sex Tip #2: Explore Sado–Masochism:

As the name implies, Sado–masochism is a kinky sex ritual that involves a sexual sadist and a sexual masochist. This is also what people typically think of when they think of “Fetish”, although this is in error.

A practicing couple is usually called a Top/bottom or Master/slave. Masters and Mistresses often carry floggers or handcuffs when dressed for play and slaves generally wear collars to signify being “owned”.

Floggers, whips, racks, paddles, electro sex toys and Saint Andrews crosses (A giant wooden “X” like structure for tying and subduing submissive) are often used during the extreme kinky sex techniques that surround Sado–masochism. Please remember: These acts are always consensual. Under no circumstance is a pet or submissive supposed to be harmed against their will. Most times, the Master and pet have sat down and mapped out “a scene.” which can involve sensual torture or flogging sessions. During this time they may devise “safe words” which will be used to let their Master know how much is too much without breaking the scene. I once knew a Dom whose “stop” safe word was mercy, but most use the red, yellow or green system.

Flogging and racking are the most popular SM kinky sex techniques, but a practiced hand is necessary to ensure safety. As with anything, it is best to learn from a pro before getting started.
Kinky Sex Tip #3: Explore Fetish

people who have a particular sexual fixation fall under the caption of a Fetishist. Unlike BDSM enthusiast, who may get into a variety of play, people in this society generally like to get off in a very specific way.

24/7 Swingers and those who have a sexual fixation with hands, feet, stockings, golden showers (urine play) or scatological acts (smearing or eating of feces) are all considered fetishist.

In regard to extreme kinky sex techniques, there is no end to possibilities here. The only boundary would be your imagination (and your likes or dislikes). Try several different things. Put on a pair of ladies underwear or cross dress if you are a guy – request a golden shower if it enters your mind…

There is no limit to what you can gravitate towards when it comes to kinky sex techniques.

Extreme kinky sex techniques start with defining your own tastes. Once you are able to pinpoint them, find a local society that shares your ideas. These local clubs will have information on how to engage in extreme kinky sex techniques in a safe, sane and consensual manner. Knowing what to do and what not to do will help you have great kinky sex, endowing you with the tools necessary to continue on your path of sexual discovery.

Cross sex position

Here is a sex position to try. Let me know how it goes.

Cross -- The woman should lie flat on the bed and open her legs to allow the man to enter her. The man should lie diagonally across the woman and rock gently from side to side after penetration. The woman can use her hands to control his movements and guide him. This position works with either the man or woman on top.

Places to have sex

Sex is so much fun. It is great to make sex so interesting and to do it in different places. I know I have done it in different places in my life. I love to make it more interesting while I am traveling or with a new partner. Here are some ideas I have thought of and thought I would share with you. I will share with you some places I have had sex. Please feel free to share where you have had sex.

*In the mud during a light rain
*In the foam pad at the local gymnastics academy
*Under the bleachers during a sporting even
*On a tanning bed
*At a ski resort in the gondola as you ride to the top of the mountain
*On the boat, in the middle of the lake
*In a Jacuzzi tub filled with bubbles
*In a tree
*On the top of a fire truck
*On the rooftop of a hotel or other building
*On a huge stack of pillows on the floor
*In the middle of an apple orchard
*Inside a butterfly house or sanctuary
*On a blanket at center ice of a rink
*On a bare waterbed or mattress covered with baby oil
*On the hood of a sports car
*In a coat closet at a party

Ways to maintain a sex life

There are ways to maintain a healthy sex life. I love to help. I love to maintain my sex life. I love sex and love to find new ways to make it better. I found some ways to make it better and thought I would share.

1. Stress the Emotional Bonds of Sex
Sex should be about more than just physical gratification. It's a means of enhancing your relationship with each other and of expressing the emotional connections you both share. Strive to make sex romantic and exciting. Emphasize mood enhancers like lit candles, rose petals and a romantic evening out on the town. Be aware of your partner's needs and wishes during sex and strive to make him happy as much as he makes you happy. Talk about your sex life with your partner and find out what excites him. The connections you make will improve not only your sex life, but also your connection as a couple.

2. Masturbate
"Don't knock masturbation," Woody Allen said famously, "It's sex with someone I love." While people may feel odd about masturbating when they're in a committed relationship, it can be a very helpful tool in a healthy sex life. Make it part of the sex act itself, either as a form of foreplay with your partner or as a means of "warming up" beforehand. You can also use it on your own to explore the things you find arousing and learn how to control your arousal in order to extend sexual sessions with your partner.

3. Stay in Shape
Exercise is an excellent way to raise your overall energy levels and have more stamina in the bedroom. Experts recommend cardiovascular exercise, such as running, swimming and cycling in particular. It increases the blood flow in the body and emphasizes endurance. Exercises specifically aimed at a healthy sex life can be stressed too. Tantric techniques can be explored, and more direct exercises, such as kegel exercising (strengthening the woman's vaginal muscles) and PC exercising (strengthening the man's pelvic muscles), can help as well.

4. Respect Your Partner's Wishes
This includes being attentive to her in the bedroom and seeing to her needs as much as your own. But it also includes listening when she may not be in the mood for sex or noticing when her motor is really running. Postpone sex if it doesn't feel right for her, or set aside other activities if she really wants it. You should expect your partner to reciprocate and be attentive to your needs as well. Make sex a choice rather than an obligation and seek out ways in which both of you can enjoy it every time you have it.

If you have ways that would make it better please feel free to share.

Pony Play

There are so many different things that go on with BDsM. Here is one that might interest you.

Pony play - a subculture all its own, pony play combines various techniques of bondage, control, and more to create a unique form of play that involves the submissive taking on the persona of a pony. 'Ponies' are used for shows, cart pulling, and dressage training. Hand signals, whips, and clickers can be used to create communication between the pony and trainer.

Give her multiple orgams

There are ways to give a woman multiple orgasms. It is a matter of finding ways to make sure that the woman you are with is happy and gets her orgasms too. Here are some ways to do it. First, create an atmosphere. Second, sweet talk her. Third, try different variations like vaginal penetration and clitoral stimulation. Fourth, make it all about her. That will make it so much better and she will be more relaxed.