Showing posts with label foreplay. Show all posts
Showing posts with label foreplay. Show all posts

Friday, April 22, 2011

Foreplay and making sex exciting again


There are so many ways to make sex exciting again. Here are some more tips to make sex exciting again. I hope this helps. I know it does for me when I spice things up in the bedroom with my man. Hope this helps you. Give me and other people your ideas. I know you make things work and give others your ideas. Come on and don't be shy. I know you are not shy with me on the phone and are not shy in the bedroom.

*Lick your lover’s nipple then blow cool air on it – repeat
*Warm your lover’s nipple in your mouth then suck in cool air around it
*Read a short passage from an erotic novel aloud in a sexy voice
*Fast forward to a hot & steamy part in an erotic movie – watch one scene
*Tickle the back of your lover’s neck with the tip of your tongue
*Seductively describe in detail how you want to ravish your lover later
*Use an artist brush to swirl flavored lube on your lover’s nipples
*Pick an advanced sex position from a book to try out later
*Pick a random page in a sex guide and use the technique later in your sex play
*Place tender kisses all over your lover’s face
*Stroke and rub your partner’s nose with your nose
*Choose something from the refrigerator to smear on and lick off your lover
*Blow “raspberries” on your lover’s belly or other ticklish regions of their body
*Use your tongue to tickle your lover’s stomach – belly and sides
*Sensually lick flavored lube or liquor from your lover’s navel

Wednesday, October 6, 2010

Ways to spice up your sex life

1. Why do you have to? If the combination of the two people isn't spicy enough, stay home and read a good book.
2. Let your date pick from a grab bag of coupons for different sex acts from a sensuous massage to intercourse in the room of his choice.
3. Flirt, flirt, flirt with your partner: No matter how long you've been together, flirt with each other when you go out. If you used to flirt with each other and now don't, start doing it again. If you never did, try stepping out of your "norm" and flirt a little with him or her.
4.Let your husband/date choose a sexy outfit for you to wear. Just the act of dressing for him -- outfit and lingerie -- will turn him on.
5. Go on a road trip! Just drive, no destination in mind, and see where the road takes you.
6. Do a slow strip tease, one item of clothing after each romantic dance. You probably won't get past 3 songs.
7. Wear sexy underwear that you know your mate will love – it will be an extra special gift as he unwraps his "present".
8. Play photographer and model. Whether you keep the photos or not, it is a great turn on. And a great way to find out what about your looks turns him on.
9. Make some chocolate fondue for dessert – and then brush the leftovers on each other!
10. Start with you nude in your heels and have him to put your garter belt and hose on you -- again you might get past one leg. Note -- if HE puts on your garter belt and hose --run for your life.
11. Try something you never have before – whether it be a public place, bondage, or blind folds, it will bring a whole new dimension to your lovemaking.
12. Invent your own brand of romance and it doesn't have to look like anyone else's. Romance to you might be yelling and screaming together at a basketball game. It might be snuggled up at your favorite restaurant or it might be taking a walk in the woods and holding hands.
13. Send flirty texts in the hours before your date – by dinner, the anticipation will be driving you crazy.
14. Wear new undies. Even if you don't plan for the night to go in that direction, it will make you feel more sexy and confident.
15. Share the fantasy night. Whisper your fantasy in his ear in public and let him stew in the thought until you get home. Have the stage set.
16. Watch a dirty movie. Either it will turn you on, or give you a great shared laugh.
17. Try an evening of finger foods... feeding each other gooey, messy, bites can be incredibly erotic!
18. Take a trip down memory lane. For date night, do something together that you used to love to do together. Maybe it's the restaurant where you met, bowling or renting the movie you saw together on your first date.
19. Fool around – but don't have sex. Remember high school, when you'd make out for hours and never even take off your clothes? NOT having sex can be a huge turn on.
20. Try role playing. Meet at a bar and pretend to be strangers... the excitement will be flowing in no time.