Some ideas on involving fantasies

I have found that sex does involve some planning and ways to make sure that you are always kept interested in sex. I found that I need those little helps some times. Here are some things to keep our fantasies out there.
For Her:
-fantasies involving current partner
-sex with a man other than her partner
-sex with another woman
-something you have never tried before
-receiving oral sex
-sexual ravaging- "Sexual ravaging" is a very common female fantasy. Passionate and forceful but rarely violent and painful, the "ravagings" in our head differ dramatically because we're always in control. On the opposite end of the spectrum are fantasies where we force him to have sex with us, often in typically male-dominated situations like a courtroom or a business meeting. Being the aggressor or having physical power over him appeals because in real life it's usually the opposite.
-being found irresistible my a man
-working as a prostitute or a stripper
-sex with a stranger

For him
-fantasies about current partner
-sex with some other woman other than partner
-giving or receiving oral
-sex with 2 or more women- possibly with some lesbian action
-voyeurism/exhibitionism
-partner masturbates for you
-anal sex- is one of the most erotic zones
-BDSM
-sexual ravaging- Contrary to what most women believe, when you fantasize about forcing a woman to have sex with you it's more about overpowering her through your amazing sexual technique and charisma than violence. She starts off saying "no" then can't help but say "yes," given the super hunk that you are. Conversely, if she's forcing you to have sex, you're indulging in a submissive sexual role quite unlike the one you probably have in real life.
-sex with another man- it just means you are sexually curios. does not mean that you are "gay"

Does any of these fit into what you think or feel? Let me know. I will be more than happy to comment back to you. Sex is all about making us happy.